So with the realization that I will soon have a baby in my house along with a busy toddler, a preschooler, running my own company, and a house and husband to take care of... I am starting to wonder what I can do to make this a manageable situation. I fully admit that I have made things way to hard on myself to this point. With both Kyler and Halle I fed or rocked them to sleep for every nap and evening, literally every time they went to sleep. Before and when I had Kyler, I thought the Mom's that laid their children in a crib, shut the door, and let them cry until they went to sleep were mean. With Halle, I started thinking maybe they were not terrible mean but very sane and efficient. With this 3rd baby on the way, I am completely jealous of those that don't let their babies eating and sleeping schedule take up 95% of their day. With two raised infants under my belt, I am ready to change my mentality. I have always heard about the book "BabyWise" and how you should treat it like a Bible for taking care of babies. I know it involves a lot of scheduling, routine making, and possibly crying in cribs (until they get it figured out) Amazon says the following about this book:
"On Becoming Babywise brings hope to the tired and bewildered parents looking for an alternative to sleepless nights and fussy babies. The Babywise Parent Directed Feeding concept has enough structure to bring security and order to your baby's world, yet enough flexibility to give mom freedom to respond to any need at any time. It teaches parents how to lovingly guide their baby's day rather than be guided or enslaved to the infant's unknown needs."
So my question to you is: Have you read this book and do you use the system?
Is it a good system to adopt?
Can I implement it without feeling like a cold and mean Mom?
If you have any feelings or experience in this situation, please share.